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He who has a why to live can bear almost any how. ~Friedrich Nietzsche

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In the comment section of the “It’s About Time” post, Tom Volkar life coach and author of Delightful Work brought it up again.

I think it all comes down to purpose and perspective. First why are you blogging? For what purpose and are you meeting that objective?…

He’s right.

It seems many of us start blogs, but don’t know why we continue them? And if we do go on, it’s like walking through a maze. We make twists, turns, and sometimes go backwards. We don’t know what’s at the exit or how to get there.

And in the process we may either lose sight of our objective or realize we never had one.

Today’s Lesson

When I started blogging I had two objectives. One was to make money online and the second was to share knowledge with others.

I remember asking myself, “Why?”

To the money part, my answer was (in part) “to add additional income to our household”.

And to the second part, I answered, “With what I’ve learned through the years (and continue to learn), a blog would be a great medium to share with others and maybe make their life a little easier.”

I feel I continually meet the “sharing knowledge” part of my goal, however, making money online had became a non issue. After all, what I get from blogging is priceless.

But, after blogging for two and a half years, I’ve regrouped and am revisiting the make money online objective.

With the blogging knowledge I’ve accumulated plus the reputation I’ve built online, it’s now time for me to “go for the gold” with my blogging endeavors.

No. It does not mean I’ll be tacking flashing ads to this site, nor will I be begging anyone to buy something from me.

What I’m doing instead is setting up an additional site on which I will offer a fee based service (plus more).

Unfortunately I’m not ready to unveil my new project yet, but that’s not what’s important today.

What is important is that we all ask ourselves the questions Tom has suggested.

Today’s Assignment

Why are YOU blogging?

What is your agenda? What is the PURPOSE that drives you to sit in front of your computer screen and publish posts? To visit other blogs? To leave comments? To renew your blog subscription?

Is your blog fulfilling your objective?

If not, might it be time to take a hard look at where you are, where your blog is headed and possibly ________(fill in the blank)?

I’ve shared my story and I’d love to hear yours.

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Photo Credit: Tim Green aka atoach

It's about time - photo of clock, pad and paper

I don’t know about you, but I have not met a blogger who has a lot of free time. In fact, as I travel through blogosphere, I’m beginning to believe bloggers are over achievers – trying to do it all, and do it good.

Needless to say, the issue of time is often written about in blog posts and/or comments as bloggers struggle to find more.

Today’s Lesson

Although we’ve discussed how to make more of our time in the past, I feel this is a topic worth discussing further.

So, what can we do to give us more time to blog? To visit other sites? To set up additional blogs? To work behind the scenes? Or to join and participate in social networks like Twitter, Facebook or StumbleUpon?

Here are five options I’ve come up with:

  1. Cut back on posting

    One thing we often read is we need to make the Google bots happy and publish fresh content daily.

    Although daily posts will show those pesky Google bots our blog is alive and well, what we’re not taking into consideration is our readers. Will they have time to visit us daily and read our latest post? Chances are, they won’t. Soon our best work is buried in our archives and few have had a chance to read it.

  2. Limit the time spent on social media/networking sites

    Networking on sites like Twitter or Facebook is a great way to connect with other bloggers and possibly drive up our traffic numbers, however, if we’re not careful, a planned 15 minute visit can easily turn into an hour. If this is an issue for you, try setting a timer.

  3. Make blog visiting/commenting time two-fold

    As discussed in the comments of the He Said, She Said, They Said post, many bloggers don’t go back to check for a response to their comment until they visit the blog the next time. By using this technique it will allow us more time for other blogging activities, or life.

  4. Use the post-date feature

    I don’t know if other blog platforms have this feature, but WordPress does. When we’re feeling creative, we can write more than one post and schedule them to publish at a later date. Not only will this relieve the stress of “what to post next”, but in the event life calls and we don’t have time to construct a post, we’ll have one (or more) ready to go.

    Stress management poster - bang head here

  5. Utilize outsourcing

    Many of us do try to do it all, but for each of us there is probably a part of blogging that keeps us beating our head against the wall. Instead of wasting precious time struggling with the parts of blogging that frustrate us, we can hire an expert. This will not only save us time, but we’ll know it is done right.

Okay class, now it’s your turn.

Today’s Assignment

Which part of blogging uses up most of your time?

What are your favorite time saving tips for blogging?

Raise you hand and share your thoughts.

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Photo Credits: Clock by wan fauzan
Stress relief poster by: ©aius

Two way street photo
In an ideal world, a conversation is like a two way street. One person talks while the other one listens and then it’s the other persons turn.

If more than two people are in the room, a conversation often develops between all parties present with each one being heard.

Blogs and their comment sections are like that, too.

The blog author writes a post; visitors read it. Each visitor has the option of leaving a comment and the blog author may or may not respond.  The original commenter might  then return to see what the blog author had to say. During their visits, they might also  read the comments left by others.

Today’s Lesson

As we all know, it’s often the comment section where the post blossoms.

If fact, comment sections can become an extension of a post and will often hold equal if not greater value than the post itself.

Thus, reading comments can be very beneficial.

But in order to all we’d like while blogging, this encompasses more reading. And, more time.

This also raises the issue of checking back to see if the blog author replied to our comment – another demand on our time.

So how do we do it?

Should we subscribe to the comments on each blog we read?

Should we continually go back to the blogs where we left comments checking for updates?

Or, should we not even worry whether the blog author replied to our comment, skip reading the other comments, have our say and move on?

Since it was Hilary of  Positive Letters who contacted me and asked me to discuss this issue, I’ll repeat Hilary’s questions.

Today’s Assignment

Do you take time to read all of the comments on blog posts?

Do you go back to a blog to read the replies from the blog author?

If so, how do you fit this activity into your already crowded schedule?

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P.S. Thank you Hilary for these thought provoking questions.


Photo Credit: photographer padawan *(xava du)

what-are-bloggers

When I searched online for “what are bloggers”, this is what I found,

Blogger : a person who keeps and updates a blog

Considering all we do, I found that to be pretty nondescript, and in some ways almost like an insult.

Now, if all I did was listen to the news, I would think bloggers are far left/far right wing radicals who trash political figures in the name of “first amendment rights”, with no concern of legal ramifications.

However, where I travel in blogosphere I land on pages like this one titled, Morning Muse: Writers Block, Pass the Windex written by Davina.

Feeling virtuous for being here this morning at this time, yet the writing reflects no virtuosity. Inspiration interrupted and dead to appreciation, I’m awash with writer’s block.

Discontentment creates unwelcome impressions on the snowy white page before me. Polluted thoughts cast shadows over inspiration….

Knowing I landed on a blog, my first thought is, “She’s more than a “blogger. Davina is what I would call a “writer”.”

Today’s Lesson

So, what is a blogger?

Is a blogger a writer? Is a blogger someone who goes online to freely voice their opinion? Is a blogger a blend of many things? And, can we be a blogger, but not be a “writer”?

Although I’ve written hundreds of letters (both personal and business), wrote speeches for corporate executives, dozens of paragraphs in employee manuals, enjoy putting pen to paper and have been told I have a gift for the written word, I’ve never considered myself to be a “writer”.

My definition of a writer is someone who knows how to tell a tale by keeping us captivated with each word, leaving us with a longing for more.

When I blog, I don’t write to captivate my audience, but instead I write to share knowledge. And, knowing many will scan my writings/lessons, I’m more concerned with getting to the point than spinning a yarn.

Confused as to how I would define myself, I checked how Wikipedia defines a writer. Here’s what they say:

Writer

A writer is anyone who creates a written work, though the word usually designates those who write creatively or professionally, as well as those who have written in many different forms.

Although Wikipedia is not the best source for definitions, I found this one to be so broad, my grandchildren would be classified as writers.

Digging a little further, I looked at two other examples.

Journalist

A journalist is a person who practises journalism, the gathering and dissemination of information about current events, trends, issues, and people while striving for viewpoints that aren’t biased.

Reporter

A reporter is a type of journalist who researches and presents information in certain types of mass media.

Since journalists and reporters attempt to be unbiased, even though bloggers “gather and disseminate information”, many bloggers are quite opinionated so even those definitions might not apply.

So what are we?

Are we writers who blog? Biased journalists and/or reporters? Left or right wing radicals/non-radicals who practice our first amendment rights?

Or are we just bloggers – “people who keep and update blogs”?

I don’t know about you, but I know I’m more than that.

Today’s Assignment

If you had to define what a blogger is, what would you say?

What do you call yourself? A blogger? A writer? A journalist? Or something else?

Raise your hand, share your thoughts and let’s see if we can come up with a better definition of what a blogger is.

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our blogs, our babiesBlogs become like children to us.

It’s no wonder. It is us who gives them life. It is us who introduces and shows them off to the world.

In the beginning many of us changed our themes as often as we would change a baby’s clothes – trying to find just the right outfit for the christening.

We nurture our blogs, add our blood, sweat and tears, and when we hit milestones, we celebrate.

And just like with children, we become protective and possessive of your blogs.

Mistakes and all, we’re proud of them. Happy to call them our own.

But what happens when others tell us we should make changes to our blogs?

Today’s Lesson

I’ve had blog authors ask for my opinion on their blogs. In some cases I suggested a simple tweak, and when others asked what I thought of their complete site redesign, I gave my honest opinion, but I let them know, that’s all it is – my opinion.

And my opinion is based on what “I” look for when I first land on a blog.

For example, here are my preferences:

  1. The content

    Is the topic something I’m interested in? Is the author putting an original spin on the subject, or are they just regurgitating old news?

  2. The “About Me”page

    How is the author describing themselves? What can I expect to find on the blog? Do they provide a back story? Pictures?

  3. Can I find the recent posts and/or the archives?

    If I’m interested in the content, I look for recent posts. If they aren’t listed, than I hope to find more of the author’s writings in the archives.

Even if the blog I land on is beautifully designed, if I’m not captivated by what I read, and/or the blog hasn’t met my personal preferences for blog navigation, I don’t stick around.

What I don’t put a lot of weight on:

  1. The header

    I see the header as being a personal choice. For continuity, a photo helps to match the blog title and/or tag line to the content, however, some blog themes don’t use a photo header. I also keep in mind some bloggers are using what comes with the theme and/or are yet to learn how to change the header image.

  2. How the content is formatted

    Although I prefer some white space (not just solid writing), if the content is good, I’ll read it.

  3. Spelling and grammar

    Knowing English is not the first language for some bloggers, and also realizing we’re often too close to the content to catch our own errors, I’ve learned to overlook grammar and/or spelling mishaps.

  4. Advertisements

    I know many bloggers (including myself) would like to make a passive income from their blogs. As long as the ads aren’t so distracting they take away from the content, I’m happy.

Now it’s your turn.

Today’s Assignment

What do you look for when you land on a blog for the first time?

Have you ever had someone say your blog could be improved – solicited or not?

Did you change it or leave it as is?

Should constructive criticism be brushed off as “just their opinion”, or should we listen?

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