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Good Day Class.

Today we have the honor of having Kevin from the Florida Mortgage Blog as our substitute teacher (guest writer). Like tending to a garden, Kevin will be teaching us how to apply that same nurturing to social media.

Please take your seats and have a listen to what Kevin has to say.

Without further ado, I’ll turn the class over to our substitute teacher.

Welcome Kevin.

The floor is yours.

Hello Class

It’s great to be here. Today’s lesson is longer than normal, so let’s get started.

Today’s Lesson

I’ve long believed in the idea that we need to cultivate and nurture our customers and clients in order to foster natural, meaningful, organic relationships.

Social media marketing – using websites like Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, and the like – is the perfect vehicle by which to achieve this – to tend our social garden, if you will.

We’re all in this blogging and social networking gig for some sort of personal gain, but it’s important to remember that there is real and measurable value in taking time to place the needs, interests, and strategic goals of others before our own – at least some of the time. I say “some of the time” because we should of course always remain mindful our own interests.

We just need to be sure that we take time to keep the social part of social media alive and well.

Hey, Thought You Might Like to Read This…

Remember back in the “good old days,” when the “How to Climb the Corporate Ladder” Gurus would suggest that we clip out newspaper or magazine articles our higher-ups or customers might find useful, and then offer them as a means of building our reputation as intuitive, informed, and valuable individuals?

This is pretty much the concept we need to using to drive our social media efforts, only now we can send links through services like Twitter! Pepper these links with the right hashtags and we can increase our following because some folks out there felt they received some benefit from the little golden nuggets we’ve found!

Each “hey, thought you might like to read this after our last conversation”-type Tweet brings us one step closer to clients and customers thinking “Hey, that person is a darned useful member of my network!”

Never forget that people do business with people they like.

The Post-Man May Only Ring Twice, But You Should Deliver News and Tips More Often…

I am, at times, all over the map with my social media efforts. However, one thing that’s kept me in line (as if that’s possible) is a blueprint I’ve set up for managing my days. As we move ahead with our respective Search Engine Marketing and Social Media Marketing efforts, I really feel that a key to ongoing success is developing some sort of repeatable process – a routine.

I like to look at my social network as a neighborhood. On a flexible but orderly schedule, I pop by and say “¡Hola!” to folks, leave some useful tips, news and information, and then get the heck out of their way.

Remember: It’s never about making the sale. At least not overtly. You’ll develop your book of business over time.

For now – just plant a few seeds in quality soil (carefully selected / targeted contacts) – fill up your watering can with useful and nutritious info – and drip, drip, drip your presence in front of your audience.

In closing, take time to weave into your brand a helpful bit of occupational Umami – a subtle and fresh sense about you that says I’m a helpful and valuable member of your social network! Make this a key part of your brand, and you’ll land on the must-follow and must-know list of more and more people as you go along.

Today’s Assignment

When using social media, are you also marketing yourself and/or your blog?

Has it worked?

Have a story to share?

Comment here so we can all learn together!


happykevin1_270x300.jpgKevin Sandridge is a social media enthusiast and Florida Home Loans Specialist based out of Winter Haven, Florida. He blogs regularly over at his Florida Mortgage Blogger blog discussing topics ranging from mortgage news and trends to online social media efforts.


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The Art Of Persuasion

Remember when we had the discussion on needing to sell ourselves and our blogs in order to get discovered and read? Well, when I landed on this week’s “Blog of the Week”, I felt I found a blog that could teach us just that.

This author has not only studied how to influence others, but he has also worked for a “well established coaching and training company”. It was there he discovered his passion.

A passion to help others communicate more successfully.

I love what he says in his “About” page.

The most important thing I learned about communication is: IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU, IT’S ABOUT THE PERSON IN FRONT OF YOU.

Isn’t that the truth. We can talk and/or write until we’re blue in the face, but if we don’t consider our audience, all may be for naught.

As I was digging through his archives I found gem titled A Million Ways to Make a Million Dollars in which he teaches us several techniques to become more persuasive. In part, he says,

Since becoming successful begins with you, it is important to convince yourself on your ideas. Have you ever ‘pitched’ an idea to someone even though you only partially believed it? What about the opposite, pitching an idea and standing as sturdy as a surfboard behind it? Obviously when you stand behind something with passion and power, you are more likely to get your point across. So now the question is how do we do this? How do we persuade ourselves to be confident, to be irresistible, and to be unstoppable?

What really stood out for me was the part about being passionate about what we’re “selling”. Whether we’re selling others on us, our blogs or on a product, if we don’t believe in it, we certainly can’t expect others to.

In 32 Questions: 20 Empowering & 12, Not so Much, he reminds us,

…Your mind is created to function and tic a certain way. When you ask your mind a question, it will ALWAYS look for an answer. So by asking yourself negative questions, you’ll get negative answers. What I’m about to share with you CAN be something that will dramatically change your life forever. …Imagine if you asked yourself questions like, “How can I get stronger?” “How do I get smarter?” “What should I do to make money now?” Do you want to know the answers to those questions?…

He then goes on to share questions we can ask ourselves. Which ones we choose and how we answer is up to us.

The suspense is over.

Drum roll please.

The blog I’m showcasing today is authored by AJ Kumar and is titled, Persuasive.net

Please join me in welcoming AJ to the Blogging Without A Blog community.

Welcome AJ.

Thank you for leaving your profile in the Blog Registry as that is how I found you.

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P.S. You can also follow AJ on Twitter.


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I wish photo

“More tears are shed over answered prayers than unanswered ones”

~ St. Theresa of Avila

When I look at the life of a problogger, I’m often in awe of all they’ve accomplished. In the world wide web, they have found their place.

Their voice has a reach new bloggers can only dream of.

Today’s Lesson

Knowing many of us have a burning desire to make it big in blogosphere, and tagging onto the article of Tracy’s post going viral, let’s have some fun today and play the game of “What If”.

Are you ready?

Let’s say you just won the title of “World’s Best Blogger”.

You become an overnight sensation – much like Susan Boyle

Your blog and it’s content goes viral. The whole world is reading it.

Word of your accomplishment makes the news. Even Oprah’s calling.

The internet is all abuzz.

Your traffic sky rockets, as do your earnings.

Your Twitter followers increase to a million overnight.

Everything you’ve ever done online is now being critiqued.

Each and every word, each and every photo is being scrutinized.

The blogs you’ve frequented are being combed for your comments.

You’re being bombarded by reporters, bloggers and emails from all over the world.

They all want a piece of you.

They all want your story.

And, some want to take you down.

Today’s Assignment

What would you do?

Would you be ready?

How could you have planned for this?

Raise your hand and play along.

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