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mommy blogger who does it all - wonder woman

I don’t know how she does it. She’s like Wonder Woman.

She’s a wife. She’s a mother of five boys. She writes on two blogs, is owner and administrator of a message forum, guest posts on other blogs, shares her voice on Twitter, maintains a FaceBook page and virtually meets up with other moms on Mom Bloggers Club. Whew!

When I met her through George’s Tumblemoose Writing Services blog, I was hooked after reading just one post.

When you read her work, you know she’s authentic. It’s like she’s thinking out load, and writing those thoughts. No stone is left unturned.

Prior to her first coaching lesson with Tim Brownson she wrote a post and discussed how she felt it should go. She titled it, “6 Things I Secretly Hope Are Included In Life Coaching”

…there were a few things that weren’t mentioned that I secretly hope are included.

1. Choosing a theme song for my life…

…Oh yeah, I forgot, Eye of the Tiger! Eye of freaking Tiger, man! I’ve been singing it all weekend to get pumped up. Tim didn’t explicitly tell me to do this, but it was sort of hinted at when he gave me some “intake forms” to fill out. Totally was looking for me to read between the lines there.

In her post titled, Shangri-La Diet – Week 25, she writes,

I’m not really a Mommy Blogger and don’t write much about my kids but one day I might have to do some sort of running diary of what it’s like to be at home with 4 children ages 1.5 – 6 all day long. Maybe in conjunction with some sort of fundraiser for me….

When she had a contractor coming to her house, she shared what she did before he got there in a post titled, My Brave and Inspiring Battle with Contrahension

Contrahension is a word my husband coined this morning to describe my feeling of anxiety surrounding appointments with service people in our home. Contractor + apprehension, get it?

She then goes on to say,

For today’s appointment I chose 10-12 [a.m.] because I figured it would give me enough time to tidy up but not too many hours of trying to maintain cleanliness. In an ideal world, this would just be a matter of putting the breakfast dishes away and making sure all the dirty socks were picked up from the bedroom floor.

I do not live in an ideal world.

Some of you have found her already, but for those who haven’t, here’s a blog that will make you laugh, make you think and will inspire you to subscribe. It’s I Hate My Message Board and is written Tracy.

Please join me in re-welcoming Tracy to the BWAB community.

Welcome Tracy.

I was going to say your tiara is in the mail, but with you being “Wonder Woman”, I see you already have a crown. :)

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One thing about buying books from Amazon is they let us “search inside the book” before we make a purchase. Often we will see the table of contents, get to read the first page or two, the back cover and they even have a “surprise me” option which takes the potential purchaser to an unknown page in the book. The process gives us enough information in order to make an informed decision to purchase or not.

The “About Me” page on a blog can be viewed as the same. When a new reader lands on our blog, they often want to know what they can expect, who the author is, and/or what the author’s credentials are. Even though the posts may be of the highest quality, if a visitor isn’t impressed with the author’s credentials, they may choose not to return.

An “About” page can either sell a blog, or sink it.

A good example of this would be a blogger claiming they’ll show their readers how to make money via blogging, but when we read their “About Me” page, we discover they are new to blogging and haven’t made a dime.

Today’s Lesson

For many bloggers, the “about me” page is often harder to write than a typical post.  We don’t like to sound like we’re bragging, but on the other hand, it is imperative we sell ourselves and our work in order to grow our blog.

So, what can we include in an “about me” page to better inform our readers who we are?

1)  Obviously, who we are. 

This is where we want to tell our readers a little about us. The “about me” page is also a great place to share personal photographs. In the event we’re protecting our true identity, than our efforts need to be directed towards enticing a reader to want to stick around.

2)  What our visitors can expect to read/see on our blog.

Whether we’re sharing articles on personal development, business, blogging, product reviews, photographs and/or a variety of topics, a statement explaining our blogging goals will tell our readers what they can expect to find when they visit.

3) Our credentials

If we’re an expert in a specific field, we can list our degrees, experience, etc.

If our blog will discuss business, we can tell our readers what our experience is. If we are a mommy/daddy blogger, we can explain we’re a working or stay at home parent with “x” number of children.  If we’re young and have little to no experience in any given field, we need to let your readers know that, as well.

4)  Why our blog is named what it is. 

Many have asked me why I named this blog “Blogging Without A Blog”. In my “about” page, I’ve included the explanation.

5) Why we are blogging. 

We can share a short story with our readers telling them what it was about blogging that attracted us, or how by blogging we feel we can help others.

6) Where else can we be found. 

If we’re on Twitter, Stumble Upon or other social networking sites, we can include a link to our profile. If we have other blogs, this is the perfect place to link to our other sites so our readers can find more of our work. If we have authored books, a link to those books would not only help to show more of our talent, but could drive sales. If we offer an additional service, this is an ideal place to plug that, as well.

7) What is our posting schedule?

By posting our publishing schedule, we can alert our visitors how often they can expect to receive updates from us. This would also be a great time to suggest they subscribe via RSS feed or email and provide the appropriate links.

Having a good “About Me” page will not only tell our readers a little about us and what they can expect when they visit our blog, but by following the steps we’ve outlined for our readers, we can stay more focused on our blog’s purpose.

Today’s Assignment

Did you have a hard time writing your “About” page?

What information do you include?

When you land on a blog, do you look for and read the “About” page?

How important do you feel an “About Me” page is?

Care to Share?

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If you haven’t heard of Susan Boyle, you will. She’s been deemed the latest YouTube / internet musical sensation. Her debut on “Britain’s Got Talent” has received over 16 million hits on YouTube in less than a week.

Susan’s story has been discussed on CNN, Fox News, CBS Early Show, The Today Show, Anderson Cooper 360, Bill O’Reilly, Twitter and FaceBook just to name a few. For those of you who haven’t seen the video, it is a “must see”.

Although YouTube disabled the embedding of the video, I am able to share it here, courtesy of Daily Motion, .

NOTE: This is the 7+ minute video of Susan’s performance. To capture the full power of the message, I urge you to watch it from beginning to end. I promise, you won’t be disappointed.

If you have a problem watching the video here, click on this link

Today’s Lesson

If you watched the video of Susan Boyle, you see how things aren’t as they appear. Let’s face it, we often have preconceived notions based on our first impression.

Blogging is no different. As bloggers we learn we have a matter of seconds to entice our visitors to read our work and/or to subscribe. In the blink of an eye, if visitors to our site don’t like what they see, they’re gone.

But, what about a blogger who is new. A blogger who is making their debut? Are we, as fellow bloggers, giving them a chance?

When Susan Boyle told Simon Cowell (of American Idol fame) she would like to be as popular as singing sensation Elaine Paige, the audience laughed, rolled their eyes and snickered.

What about new bloggers who dream to be the next Darren Rowse, Dooce, or Steve Pavlina? Are we rolling our eyes at them? Snickering or laughing behind their backs?

The Susan Boyle story and video pulls at my heart strings in such a way, I can’t stop watching her performance.

It drives the message home that first impressions are often deceiving.

It reminds me how we should never underestimate the potential of a new blogger either.

They too, have a dream and need a chance.

Today’s Assignment

Have you ever rejected a blog, only to find out later the author was a diamond in the rough and is now on their way to stardom?

When you started blogging, did you worry the first impression you were making wasn’t good enough?

How did watching the video of Susan Boyle affect you?

Care to share?

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