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sharing-encouragement-and-inspiration-blogging-without-a-blog_1237452950714(Update: This post was written when I changed my theme in 2009. In 2010 I changed it again to what you’re seeing today).

When we start a blog, we never know where it will take us. Some may walk a steadfast road and believe they want to end up at “XYZ”, when in truth, if we let our blog evolve on it’s own, it can take us on a magical journey.

Two years ago today, I published my first post. Looking back, it was rather lame, but I’ve left it in the archives as a reminder for both me and my readers how things change.

I didn’t plan to have a blogging “classroom”, nor did I even plan for this blog to become popular. In truth, this was going to my online journal of my blogging journey – a place for me to document what I was learning. A place I could return to when I would forget “how to”. But when comments started coming in, and a community started to form, magic began to happen.

Now, here I am, about to embark on year three of blogging and sporting a brand new theme. Those of you who have followed me, know this has been a work in progress for some time now. My goal was to teach myself CSS coding and do it on my own, however, time wasn’t on my side.

That’s when Eric of Frugal Site Design came to my rescue.

I first experimented with several of the beautiful themes Eric provides on his site, and he kindly constructed a header for me based on my preferences, but I didn’t get that “Wow” factor I was looking for. Fortunately the answer was in front of me. I took the theme I’ll be using for our company website and began designing the header and footer.

Meanwhile Eric went behind the scenes and painstakingly made the other changes I asked for. And, when I changed my mind, he kindly revised it again, and again, and you guessed it, AGAIN.

I’ve asked Eric to join me for this post, and answer a few questions about what he does. Here’s what he had to say,

1) Eric, can you tell us a little more about you? How you got into blogging and now theme design?

Well, let’s see…I’m a soon to be dad of a little baby boy named Tyson. My wife, Liz, and I are very excited and looking forward to finally stepping into our parental roles. I live on the East Coast of the US and love living healthy and enjoying the outdoors (and flying my RC gliders).

I’ve had my own computer consulting business since the beginning of 2004, but only since the summer of 2008 did I take interest in blogging. I officially started my first blog, Motivate Thyself, at the end of July. I had written an ebook called, ‘Guide To Rejuvenating Sleep’ and I was planning on trying to sell it on a Niche website. But after I started looking into blogging I realized that it would make a better free download; a kind of gift for stopping by.

I really fell in love with blogging. From the tech aspect it was full of goodies to constantly fiddle with, but it was the community connection that pleasantly surprised me. I’ve made so many new friends from all around the globe and I’ve learned a lot about myself. I’ve even become less shy and reserved (at least on the Internet).

As far as the site design goes, I kind of just fell into it. Just like my computer business, I couldn’t get away from the fact that I naturally play nice with technology. I picked up WordPress coding fairly quickly and I’ve always been naturally creative, so it was a great fit. One of the things that many of us bloggers have in common is the desire to monetize our blogging activity. The desire to have more time and freedom to do what we love. The dream is to have so much traffic that we can just throw up some ads, sit in our hammock and watch the money come rolling in. The reality, though, is that until you hit those high traffic numbers, something like a sought after service is more likely to bring home the bacon. Thus began Frugal Site Design.

2) Maybe it’s a girl thing, but as you know, I changed my mind numerous times. I know that had to be frustrating to you, but you’ve handled it so well. How do you manage to keep your cool when a client continually changes their mind?

Well, after 5 years of dealing with thousands of frustrating scenarios where the computer AND the client aren’t cooperating, I’ve learned to take it all in stride. Your situation, for example, was not at all frustrating. I don’t mind making changes as long as the end result is a product that makes the client happy. It’s when the client is NEVER happy, that I have to draw the line. I find that most people have fairly reasonable expectations and that as long as they and myself remain flexible, we’ll work well together. But, YES, it certainly takes a fair share of patience to work with the general public.

3) The majority of your business is done via emails or phone calls. How is it you can understand so well what a person is wanting without having them physically there pointing out what they like, don’t like, or are wanting to move something an inch here or there, etc?

It can certainly be tough. The convenience of being able to sit in my home office and get the job done is great, but there are certainly times when I wish I were right there with the client. The key to making it work is to know when and what questions to ask and how to read between the lines. Most of the time my clients are up front about things, but they often don’t know exactly how to explain what they want/need. So it’s my job to ask questions ABOUT their questions to make sure we’re on the same page. Over time you get better at this and things get a bit easier and more efficient.

4) What kinds of jobs to you do the most? Do you work mostly with bloggers? Is what you do at Frugal Site Design more technical or design oriented?

Thus far I have done a fairly equal amount of general websites and blogs and a few of the two combined. Most of my website clients have been from my local community. When the word got out to my previous computer clients that I was doing affordable web design, I quickly found my inbox full of requests. But in this great blogging community I’ve had a lot of requests for either a more professional blog design or assistance with moving from a free blogging service to a self hosted WordPress setup. As time goes on I’m finding that bloggers are my main client. This excites me because one of my greatest passions with blogging is helping others stand out from the crowd. This service gives me the opportunity to do this.

As for the technical vs design question, I would say that it’s 50/50. When I was doing my computer consulting I got to enjoy the technical aspect of computers, but never any kind of creative design. Frugal Site Design allows me this opportunity. Also, it all depends on the job. BWAB, for example, was mostly technical as you had already done much of the design. You just needed someone who know the coding aspect to be able to implement your vision. Other times, I get a blank slate and a person saying, “Just make my new blog look clean and use this color scheme.” This is when I get to run wild with my creativity.

To be honest, I equally enjoy both aspects. Sometimes I crave creativity, while other times it’s a pleasant reprieve to be able to just play with PHP. Both are great and one without the other would be a shame. So over all I’m very happy with my new gig and look forward to making magic with more and more bloggers.

Again, I must give praises to Eric Hamm for all he’s done. Knowing me, I’m sure I’ll want to tweak this theme from time to time. I feel blessed to have Eric there to hold my hand.

You’re great Eric. I appreciate all you’ve done and wish you tons of success.

The changes you’ll find here are as listed:

  1. Obviously, the first thing you’ll notice is the header. Although it’s a big header and it uses up a lot of the space above the fold, I’ve chosen to take a chance and go with it.
  2. A larger footer section which contains additional links and information
  3. The inclusion of my photo – finally, hey? :)
  4. A new tagline
  5. A rewritten short description of this site – “About” – see sidebar
  6. A new “About” page – see header navigation bar
  7. A comment policy – see header
  8. A “Featured Blogs” page which contains all of the bloggers who have been showcased in the New Blog Of The Week (NBOTW) series – see header (will be updated weekly)
  9. An “A.S.K.” page that lists the links to the interviews I’ve done with probloggers – see both header and left sidebar
  10. Popular/most commented posts – see footer
  11. Stumble It, Digg it, Delicious It and Tweet it buttons at the bottom of each post.
  12. A new default avatar for those who comment and don’t have an avatar. Need one? Read this post.
  13. A statement at the bottom of each comment stating how I may use all or part of your comment as inspiration for a future post.
  14. A new widget for Twitter which shows my latest updates – see right sidebar.
  15. A new “Donate” page, titled “Fear Change?” – see header
  16. In the footer you’ll find a section of “Blogging Resources” which includes a link to Eric’s site plus other sources for blogging help.
  17. New icons for the free subscriptions – via RSS or email – see right sidebar
  18. A new signature – see end of post
  19. A new Twitter profile page – which matches my blog

Feel free to dig around and take a look at all that’s changed. It’s been a challenging, but fun experience.

In closing I’d like to thank each and every one of you for supporting me in my blogging endeavor. I couldn’t do it without you.

Together this is what we’ve created, and I feel blessed.

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Since Monday, March 30, 2009 will mark my two year anniversary of blogging, I’ve been reflecting on what I’ve learned and how some of what we read is not true.

Today’s Lesson

The common myths on blogging:

  • Blogging is easy.
  • Yes, writing a post and hitting the “publish” button can be easy, however, there’s more to blogging than just writing. In order to gain exposure and stay current, we’ll often find ourselves engaged in social networking, answering emails, commenting on other blogs, learning coding, and/or performing blog maintenance.

  • Typos in blog posts mean the author is careless or can’t spell.
  • Although most bloggers try to be careful, nearly every blogger will make typos. Keep in mind, words are also spelled differently in other countries and for some bloggers, their first language is not English.

  • The only way to succeed in blogging is to have a niche site.
  • Although a niche site is great for targeted advertising and can become a great “go to” place for a specific topic, success can also be had by mixing it up.

  • Having a blog is an easy way to make money.
  • Money can be made with blogging, however the numbers we see the big shooters speaking of are the exception, not the norm.  In most cases it has taken the A-list bloggers YEARS to make a six figure income. In truth, most money bloggers make will be from products they sell or promote, speaking engagements and/or jobs they procure as a result of blogging (such as freelance writing, coaching or web design).

  • If we don’t visit a another blogger often enough, they’ll forget about us and unsubscribe from our blog.
  • Whether we visit our blogging buddies once a month, or once a day, the other blogger will most likely always remember us and stay subscribed.

  • Never leave a comment that says “great post”. The author will mark it as spam and delete it.
  • If the comment is written by an active blogger and the comment links back to a reliable site, in most cases it will NOT mark it as spam.

  • In order to succeed, we must follow in the footsteps of the big boys/girls.
  • It’s true, we can learn from the big boys/girls, however copy cat blogs are quite boring.  Whether we post product reviews, write 2000 word articles, 7 word haikus, share our favorite photos, write rants or tell our readers all about our children, it’s all okay. It is OUR blog and we are free to use it as we see fit. The most important thing is to stay true to yourself, be an original and build off of that.

  • In order to get our blog found, we should comment on high profile blogs.
  • A comment on a big name blog will get our name listed in their comment section, but changes are our comment may not even be acknowledged. To build a community and/or relationships with with bloggers, time needs to be spent visiting small to medium size blogs. Unlike the A-list bloggers who have bigger fish to fry, authors of smaller sites are more apt to show their appreciation by reciprocating the visit and subscribing to our blog.

  • New bloggers should wait until they have a following before they monetize their blog.
  • Quality content is what visitors are looking for. Placing advertising on our site will not deter visitors unless it overpowers the message.

  • If we link to other sites, our readers will leave us and never come back.
  • Linking to reliable resources shows our readers we’ve done our homework. Instead of leaving our site, they will consider us as an expert and keep coming back for more.

    Today’s Assignment

    Prior to having a blog, what did you read about blogging that you found out not to be true?

    Did that make you question other myths you’ve read?

    Care to share?


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    P.S. Come by on Monday and see my new theme and celebrate my second anniversary. There won’t be any cake and ice cream, but there will be lots of surprises.


    Photo Credit: smellyknee

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    Have you ever looked up to see what your name means? I did.

    According to Namespedia, the meaning for Barbara is,

    Meaning: From the Greek “barbaros” meaning foreign or strange, traveler from a foreign land.

    Nicknames: Babette, Barb, Barbar, Barbie, Bebe, Bibi and Babs

    Narrative: This word was originally used to describe anyone who did not speak Greek. It might have originated as an approximation of unintelligible babble, similar in use to the modern American expression blah-blah-blah.

    This leads me to two not so new bloggers who are also named Barbara whom I am showcasing for the week.

    The first is Barbara Ling.

    To describe what she does, I’ll quote from her “About Me” page,

    My name is Barbara Ling, and I’ve been a passionate online entrepreneur now for over a decade. Married over 15 years, a mom of 4 kids and 15 Twitter Budgies, I’m the author of 20+ ebooks, master site builder and blogger, teacher of my children and all-around zany, coffee-appreciating, maverick, all-powerful Mother Unit.

    Whew. She’s a busy lady, isn’t she.

    She goes on to say,

    Here’s what you’ll get out of my site!

    Every day I publish fresh, unique content regarding all aspects of making money online that generally focuses upon techniques I have personally put into practice myself. Sometimes I’ll offer step-by-step lessons on how to build in particular niches, other times I’ll keep you posted about kid entrepreneuring (my eldest finally realized that gee! Mom IS serious that she won’t buy me an iPod….maybe I should earn the money myself!), other times I’ll share with you personal empowerment challenges through which I’ve gone that are reminiscent of raising the Titanic….no matter what, you’ll always find the content insightful, informational and entertaining to boot!

    How can you resist checking out her blog at Barbara Ling.com

    I’ve noticed she’s also writing for another brainchild of hers, Diet Brainery. Stop on by and see what she’s up to.

    The second is Barbara Hartsook from Over Coffee, with a tag line of “…sharing thoughts and paintings, or just thoughts”.

    This Barbara has had her blog since June of 2008 and to describe who she is, I’ll take you to her “About”" page. In part, she says,

    Hi. I live in Northern Ohio near the Lake Erie shore with my husband, close to our three adult daughters, all married with children. I paint. I write. I exchange ideas with others of like-mind. And I’m in love with my family…

    She then goes on to say…

    Today I sketch to learn to see better, and I paint for story. Stories are everywhere and can be found just by looking. I’ve loved watching people for as long as I can remember. There’s drama in all of us, and it shows when we are not conscious of it, but simply living it. As artists we paint the stories that go beyond word

    Having received awards and recognition for her paintings, when you check out her entries at Painter’s Magazine and P Base Galleries you’ll understand why.

    So there you have it, two great blogs, both authored by ladies named Barbara.

    I hope you enjoy them both. For me, they’re well worth showcasing.

    Thank you again for your support


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    P.S. Another great source for finding the origin of a surname is The Internet Surname Database


    Photo Credit: jack dorsey

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