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Envy and jealousy are common traits in most of us. Let’s fact it, if someone has something we want, we can easily get a twinge of jealousy. In some instances, if it looks like they didn’t work hard to get it, anger and hate may set in.

It’s these negative emotions that can reek havoc on us, our daily lives and our creativity.

Today’s Lesson

When we read/see another blog or blog author that’s growing fast and gaining recognition in blogosphere, our first thought may be, “How is it they and/or their blog is growing so much faster than me/mine?”

Our first reaction may be to jump to conclusions. Negative feelings surface. We may become angry. Maybe we begin to feel “less than”. We may even let those feelings overpower us, get discouraged and just give up.

That doesn’t have to happen. In every life experience is a lesson. Instead of using that jealousy to ignite anger or hatred, we can use it to our advantage. Let’s study the other blog(s) and determine how it, and the author, are different from us and ours.

Listed below are some questions we can ask ourselves. Answering each one honestly can often disclose the truth.

1) Is their niche more popular than ours? Or, are we in an already crowed niche?

2) Is the blog author using SEO (search engine optimization) in their posts?

3) Do they have a “plan”? How much homework did they do prior to starting their blog

4) What is their presence in blogosphere? Are they actively commenting on other blogs? Using social media to their advantage? Joining blog carnivals? Twittering? Joining online forums?

5) How much time do they dedicate to blogging?

6) How aggressive are they in asking for Stumbles or Diggs ? (often landing them on the front page)

7) What is their knowledge of technology and blogging terminology?

8.) How self confident are they in submitting guest posts to bigger named blogs

9) Is their writing better than ours? What is their writing experience?

10) Have they hired a blog consultant?

11) How long have they been blogging?

12) Are they getting more inbound links than us, thus increasing their page rank and/or Alexa rating?

13) Is their site more professional looking than ours, and/or easier to navigate.

14) How consistently do they blog?

15) How do they project their personality in blogosphere? Do they appear authentic and genuine?

16) Do they answer the comments on their blog and make their visitors feel welcome?

17) Do they respect other peoples opinions?

18) Do they give credit where credit is due and link out to other blogs?

19) Are they looking as their blog as a “business”? A stepping stone to bigger and better things? Or are they treating it as a hobby?

It’s when we weigh the differences, we begin to understand why some blogs/bloggers succeed faster than others. In truth, when the answers are revealed, in most cases they have earned their spot in blogosphere and for that, they should be congratulated.

Today’s Assignment

Do you see other blogs that are doing better than yours and ask “Why”?

Do jealousy and envy enter the picture?

How do you explain those feelings to yourself?

By sharing your answer, others can benefit. I’m anxious to hear your thoughts.

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I can’t remember exactly how I found this blog, but from the very start, I knew I would like it. How could I not. This New Blog Of The Week (NBOTW) author has written about my home state of Michigan and another favorite; Alaska.

Depending on when you’ve landed on this blog, will determine what you’ll read. Some posts like “Seward” will share the history of a small town in Alaska, along with pictures.

But, if you land on a “Compass”, the author(s) gets you to think right from the beginning.

“How do we get to who we want to be? What are the precision points in our compass? When directions compete, how do we prioritize?

It goes on to say (in part):

Much of our prioritization comes from a basic need for approval. We want to emulate those we admire and we want them to admire us in return. Earliest, this would be our parents. Later, we turn to our peers, moving away from the influences in our home and traveling in the outside world. Suddenly, too, we proclaim that “we’re different.” But we take care not to be too different. While we might not want to conform, there generally is a sameness to our non-conformity!

In the post titled, “Proceeds”, the author(s) shares how words have always been a part of their life and why they chose to start a blog,

We wanted to eventually be free to travel and work at our own ventures. We didn’t want to be dependent upon single-source income, especially in recessionary times. We decided to begin this blog to document our journeys – posting about ourselves, our travels, our plans and experiences. And we looked around to see what else there might be. We knew we’d be embarking together, but what we didn’t know was how frequently we’d encounter others who had reached similar conclusions and had begun working on like-minded goals.

The words resonate with many. In fact, if you’ve been on this blog, you’ve probably subscribed. For those who haven’t found it it, the time to introduce it is now. The name of the blog is “Passing Thru”, and is authored by Betsy and Pete.

With a tag line that reads “a repository of thoughts, photographs, and observations from wherever we find ourselves”, you know you’re in for a special treat.

Please join me in re-welcoming Betsy and Pete to the BWAB community.

Hello again, my friends.

Enjoy your reign. :)

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If you were to ask me, I’d say blogging is still in it’s infancy and has the ability to change how we receive/transmit news and information that’s important to us.

But, what about those who have been blogging for years? What is their thought on the future of blogging? When I interviewed Darren Rowse, author of Problogger and co-author of ProBlogger: Secrets Blogging Your Way to a Six-Figure Income A.S.K. Darren Rowse   Problogger   What Is The Future Of Blogging for my A.S.K. (Answers Sharing Knowledge) series, I wanted to know what he thinks and my question was:

I’ve asked Lorelle (of Lorelle on WordPress), and I’ll ask you. What do you see for the future of blogging? How will it change, and what’s the best way for a new blogger to stay abreast?

Darren answered

Blogging continues to merge with other types of sites. We’re seeing more and more bloggers start forums, add social networks, experiment with microblogging (Twitter) etc. I think this will continue to happen.

This can be a bit daunting for some new bloggers but I think my main advice would be for them to start now and to blog prolifically. You can always expand your blog later – the key is to get your foot in the door, build a readership and learn how to use the basic technologies.

Reflecting On The Answer

Darren, thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule to participate in this series and share your answer.

When I reread Darren’s answer, and Lorelle’s answer (in my interview with her) I am hopeful. Although blogging is changing, as Darren shared “the key is to get your foot in the door”.

Today’s Assignment

Are you happy you got into blogging when you did?

Knowing what you know now, do you wish you had started earlier?

What do you see as the future for blogging?

Please feel free to share your viewpoint in the comment section.

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Read other answers in the A.S.K. (Answers Sharing Knowledge) series.
A.S.K. Darren Rowse – Problogger – What Was Your Biggest Blogging Mistake?
A.S.K. Darren Rowse – Problogger – How To Become A Six Figure Blogger
A.S.K. Darren Rowse of Problogger – When Do We Know Our Blog Is A “Winner”
A.S.K. Darren Rowse – How Does A Problogger Deal With Comments

A.S.K. Darren Rowse of Problogger – How Do We Increase Our Readership
A.S.K. Andy Bailey – What Was The Inspiration Behind The CommentLuv Plugin
A.S.K. Liz Strauss – How Do You Inspire Readers To Join Your Community
A.S.K. Liz Strauss – How To Format Blog Comments To Maximize Comments


Photo Credit: Darren Rowse/Problogger

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Happy Friday! I hope you had a great week and have a fun weekend planned.

I have some good news to share. Last Saturday I was honored to be named a SOB (Successful and Outstanding Blogger) on Liz Strauss’ blog. I’ve proudly displayed my badge in my left sidebar.

Remember two weeks ago when we had a “substitute teacher” (guest post) by Avani and she taught the “Blogging To Do List – Do It, Delete It or Delegate” lesson? That was a real hit and one I’d like to repeat, so today I’m asking two questions:

1) Are you interested in being a “substitute teacher” on Blogging Without A Blog (BWAB)?

2) When you look at where you are with blogging, what would you like to learn more about, or see discussed further?

Keep in mind, there is no such thing as a stupid question. We all came into blogging with different levels of expertise. What may be easy for one blogger to master, may be a real struggle for someone else. As a self taught blogger I was stubborn and didn’t ask questions. If I had, I know I would be much further along.

The floor is yours.

Have a great weekend!

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 Interview With Cath Lawson   Entrepreneur, Aspiring Author and BloggerYou know her as Cath Lawson, business woman and blog author with an avatar that dons purple hair and who writes with such honesty and humor, you can’t help but read her every word.

I know her as Catherine, my first and best blogosphere friend who has always been there for me, faithfully commenting on my blog posts whether they were good or not, and emailing me with words of support on those days I didn’t feel motivated.

Today Catherine shares more about herself, how she started blogging, what her plans are for the future, and how she hopes to help others.

Pull up a chair, grab a beverage and let’s listen to Catherine as she takes the “hot seat”.

Welcome To Blogging Without A Blog, Catherine.

1) Can you tell us a little more about yourself and why you decided to start blogging?

I guess I’m what you might call an “accidental business person”. When I started my first business, I didn’t know much about business at all. It was the writing that I really enjoyed.

In 2006, before I sold my fire and flood restoration business, I began blogging. At first it was just a bit of fun and I didn’t blog often, as I was always so busy in my business. I didn’t have any huge ambitions for my blog back then, I just thought it would be nice to share my business mistakes and successes with others.

My posts were infrequent, as I didn’t have a lot of time and I used a blogspot domain. Looking back, those first posts were terrible. I didn’t really have a clue how to blog at all.

2) Why did you name your blog what you did, and how did you pick your tag line?

In May 2007, I started writing on CathLawson.com. I already had a website on there but no blog. I intended to change the domain once I’d found a suitable one. I eventually bought the domain “Success Passcode”. But I went off that idea and decided to keep my own name.

When Men With Pens did a new design for me earlier this year, they came up with a temporary tagline, because I couldn’t think of one. It was “Bold Advice For Business Success”. Recently I changed it to “Tips for Success In Business And Life” but I’m still hoping to come up with something better.

3) With a blog on the rise, what makes you keep blogging and what advice can you offer to new bloggers when they feel like giving up?

When things get too much, consider taking a break. I had a month off this year and a month of last year due to ill health. It does slow your progress down a little but your blog will still be there when you come back.

Keeping going is easy, once you’ve been blogging for a while. You get so used to writing every day, so you may as well be writing for an audience, instead of keeping your work to yourself.

Also, blogging is an investment. It can take a good while to build up a decent amount of regular traffic, but you will get there if you keep writing. And you will reach a point where you’ve invested too much to give up. I have almost 500 posts on my blog now, so it’s the length of two full-length books.

4) What was the turning/tipping point when you realized your blog was making a difference in the lives of others?

Mostly, it was from comments I’d received on social networks and on my blog. Also, I found people recommending some of my posts on places like Facebook and MySpace which was exciting. I get emails from people asking for business advice too and it feels great that they trust me enough to ask.

5) When you blog, what gives you the greatest joy? By that, I mean, is it the writing process, the comments you receive, the interaction with your readers, or something else. Feel free to elaborate.

It’s a combination of everything really. I love the writing process and I also enjoy watching an interesting discussion going on in the comments section. Also, I’ll sometimes write posts that I call “common sense” posts.

They’re usually things that I’ve been doing for so long, they become second nature. But when I see them become popular on social networks and read the comments, it’s a good feeling to know that they’re actually helping folk who are just learning about business.

Also, I like getting to know people I’ve met through blogging and other forms of social media.

6) After we’ve been blogging for a specific length of time, we get to a point where we decide to take our blogs in a new direction; where do you see your blog headed and how do you plan to accomplish that?

I’m gradually getting rid of pages from my old website and turning my blog into a complete site, with additional pages as well as blog posts. And my next plan is to introduce my own products.

I want to help new business owners but keep it affordable for them at the same time. There are a lot of so called business coaches online, who charge a small fortune, yet they’ve never owned a business before they began charging for their services. To me, they’re just scammers. It’s like paying someone to teach you to be a pilot, when they’ve never flown a plane.

Most new business owners are boot-strapping. They simply can’t afford to pay hundreds of dollars an hour for advice they could have got from a text book. So, I’m planning to help them in a way that doesn’t cost the earth, which will increase their bottom line at the same time.

7) On those days when you just don’t feel like blogging, how do you motivate yourself to sit at the keyboard and produce a blog post?

If I already have a long post on my blog that’s attracting a lot of readers, I may not write at all. Other times, I’ll drag something out of drafts and complete it. I tend to get a heap of ideas in spurts, so there’s always around 100 partly written posts for me to work on.

8.) Where do you see yourself and your blog a year from now? 5 years from now?

A year from now, I aim for the business I’m planning to build from my blog, to be profitable.

In five years time, I plan to be helping thousands of people change their lives. And I hope to be more famous than Seth Godin – with more hair. :lol:

Reflecting On The Interview

Catherine, thank you so much for taking time out of your busy schedule and answering my questions. I truly appreciate it.

Knowing Catherine and reviewing her answers, it’s obvious she is on a path to success. She knows when to dive in but also knows when to step back, regroup and/or relax. She’s not in it to get rich quick, but is building her new business venture on helping others to succeed. With her kind heart and concern for others, it’s inevitable she will be a star. Seth Godin, move over, Cath Lawson is on her way. :)

Catherine has agreed to take questions from the BWAB readers. Feel free to leave your questions in the comment section and as time permits she’ll come by and provide answers. Keep in mind, she is in the UK and for us in the States, we’re dealing with a large time difference.

Again Catherine, I thank you!

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Don’t forget to visit Catherine at CathLawson.com. Dig through her archives and find the many treasures she has shared. Don’t forget to subscribe to her blog so you can stay abreast on her writings and be there when she releases her next product.


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