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This Tuesday brings you, my fifth “New Blog Of The Week” (NBOTW).

Have you ever read a post that brought tears to your eyes, and heart felt pain for the author?

This week’s “New Blog Of The Week” had that affect on me.

Why? The first post I read of hers, spoke of how she lost her husband, exactly one year from the date of the post.

Your first thought might be, “Well, he was probably an old man.”

Not so. Her husband was only 22.

That post was so beautifully written, I decided to dig deeper into her blog. Her writings are phenomenal.

This young girl has wisdom and a gift for words which she uses to draw you into her stories and lessons in life.

She began blogging in December (2007) to share. and to touch your life with insights on issues such as life, loss, and love, just to name a few.

JEMi is her name, and “In My Heels”is her blog.

Although it may sound like a “girly” blog, her advice can be used by all.

Please join me in welcoming JEMi.

Don’t forget to drop by her blog and welcome her to blogoshpere.

“In My Heels” was nominated by Natural Woman. Thank you Natural Woman for helping me find JEMi.

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If you know me, you know I don’t mean she exposed herself, like “that”.

Search long enough though, and you will find some bloggers are literally exposing themselves to gain readership/viewer ship, but that’s not what today’s lesson is about.

Today’s Lesson

Have you ever read a blog, marveled at the content and design, and wanted to know more about the author?

You click on “About Me” and it says, “Hi, I’m a new blogger, and I will share what I know, blah, blah, blah……”.

That sounds like my first “About Me” page.

When we start blogging, we all ask ourselves, “Should I use my real name?”, “Should I say if I am gal or guy?” “Should I be mysterious?” “How much should I say about myself?”

These were questions I asked.

Then I looked at the big name blogs. They all gave their names. They all shared a little about their personal lives,. And, they all had a large following.

It was that transparency that I liked about those bloggers. They didn’t appear to be hiding anything. For me, they gained instant credibility.

That is what I wanted, so I rewrote my “About Me” page, and continue to work on developing a name for myself in the blogging community.

When I read other blogs, I want to know a little about the author. Share more about oneself, credibility increases, as does traffic. If an author doesn’t “expose” who they are, and/or share real like stories, I soon lose interest, and move on.

Often it’s our experiences that help us to create a great post, which in turn, lets our readers into our world.

Although it’s not necessary to reveal all about oneself and/or family, it appears, some transparency, leads to success.

Today’s Assignment

Do you use your real name in your blog?

Do you frequent blogs if the author remains mysterious?

Do you think a blog can become successful if the author does not expose themselves to their audience?

Is it time to write/rewrite your “About Me” page?

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On two of my favorite blogs, both authors have written about gambling, in December 2007, Hunter published an article titled “I won the lottery”, and recently, Nez wrote a post titled ” Who Are The Gamblers?”

Lotteries and casinos, are notorious for aiming their marketing toward those that should not be risking their money on odds that often exceed a million to one. Sure, the casinos and state lotteries post signs that say something like this “Gaming should be used for entertainment purposes only, and should not be used for investment opportunities”

But, many people, even if they are, will not admit they are gamblers, let alone, addicted to gambling.

Today’s Lesson

Bloggers are actually big gamblers.

How, you ask?

First, we take a gamble when we get a blog. We don’t know if we will actually like blogging, but we flip a coin, and give it a try.

If we pay a web host, we are spending money on something we’re not certain will give us a return on our investment.

We write, what we feel/think, taking a gamble that others will want to read it, let alone comment.

Then we sign up for free, time consuming, affiliate programs, gambling visitors will click on our links.

Have you ever played a slot machine? I have. You give it some money, hit the button/pull the handle, and wait for the little characters to line up. If they do, you win, if they don’t, you try again….spending more money.

With blogging, we do the same thing, We publish posts and think we are going to be “lucky”. We hope to get lots of traffic. If we don’t, we keep trying, publishing more and more articles. We know, with just the right post, we will get discovered and become an overnight success. As gamblers often mutter, “just one more time”, we do the same thing.

Let’s look at stat checking. That’s just like watching the numbered balls as they roll out of the Power Ball cage. We set our traffic goals, and hope to see the exact numbers, but as they roll out, we realize we’re not a winner. We’ll try again tomorrow.

Blogging can also be compared to poker. The dealer quickly throws cards your way, you peek, put on your best “poker face” and cross your fingers. You win and get more chips (traffic/credibility), if you lose, your chips are taken away (decrease in traffic/credibility).

Look at the big name bloggers. They are like the dealer. They might throw you a “21″ (link), but chances are, no matter how many times you comment on/link to their site, they won’t. They know you’re a sucker for a link, and take advantage of it. They’re laughing all the way to the bank. I believe the saying in gambling is, “the odds are always in favor of the “house”".

You might say, but I love to blog for the sake of sharing and helping others.

That is great motivation for blogging. In fact, that’s why I blog.

But, we are also gambling..

Just like all bloggers, our biggest investment in blogging, is time.

Are you getting a “return” on your (time) investment?”

That’s a question, only you can answer.

Today’s Assignment

Are you winning with your blog?

Is your (time) investment paying off?

Is your dream to be a “dealer”

If you were a “dealer”, would you throw more “21′s” (links)?

Do you feel like the “house” and have the odds in your favor?

Or, is it time to give up this addiction, and find more useful things to do with your time?

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